I feel that, it's so frustrating. For me, getting up two or three hours before needing to leave the house helped a lot, this way I could wait out the flare at home. And then I tried to do something relaxing in the morning to keep the stress at bay. Also, things like hypnotherapy help me stay calm when I'm experiencing symptoms (otherwise I used to spiral and the stress about the flare would make the flare itself so much worse). We're all different, so I don't know if any of this will be helpful to you... Sending hugs, Karina (team member)