CommunityMemberf0c216
I feel very unwell and peculiar with my ibs and keep crying does anyone else experience this.
hateibs Member
Also, it's disheartening when you try something and it might appear to work, but then a flare up comes back just when you think you are winning. It can make me feel very fed up.
Karina Moderator & Contributor
I feel you. How long have you been living with IBS? I used to literally feel like my life was over and I would never be able to do anything again. Especially during flares and bad days, it's easy to become disheartened and lose hope. But it can get better. After 2 years where I was barely able to leave the house, I was able to travel again, start a family and have months with barely any symptoms. Please don't lose hope. I also want to share this article with you: https://irritablebowelsyndrome.net/living/hope, I hope it'll help. Sending hugs, Karina (team member)
Sandy1 Member
Yes it's awful when you're feeling this way. During a flare up I feel so poorly that I get extremely depressed and do sometimes cry as I don't want to go through this when I'm doing so much to help myself. What have you tried? I hope you're starting to feel better
Swimfan Member
Yes, I have cried and told myself how unfair life is before. I was really angry that some people could fill themselves with crazy junkfood (I mean I wasn't a saint before I got IBS but I wasn't really a unhealthy all the time or anything) while I get unwell periods even when paying extreme attention.
Well that's how I used to treat myself before I finally realised how useless these periods of self-pity were - I'm not trying to sound super "strong", it took me roughly 5 years to stop acting like a victim. Nowadays when I start pitying myself, I get this rush of emotions, actually mumble to myself "But will I give up because of that? HELL NO!" out of pure spite and then go over to meditate/QiGong or take a walk. I usually feel better after doing one of those activities.