Hello Yvonne, I wish I could be helpful with advice, but I am going through the same thing for the last few days, since last Thursday. I am not sure what to do with it myself.
Breakfast (brunch really) is always okay. I can only eat ciabatta toast and I have that with some butter and one piece with honey. I never get symptoms after breakfast. Maybe it's because it's such a light meal...or perhaps because I get active after it, or because I've had a morning bowel movement. I don't know.
I don't get real problems with discomfort until about 4-5 hours after dinner in the evening. Usually about 10pm. Then my lower abdomen starts bloating, and feels heavy and stretched and uncomfortable (rather than actual pains) I feel something moving about low down on the left and massage it, and sometimes manage to pass a tiny bit of wind which helps minimally. But that feeling never goes away until I fall asleep.
I take peppermint tea and make it extra strong with 2 teabags. Sometimes I add a camomile teabag to it also. Sometimes that has helped a bit, but not got rid of it.
It's a very unpleasant feeling every evening. I'm fine when the food is in my stomach, happy to feel satisfied after eating. I am fine for the first 4 hours or so then it starts low down. It makes no difference what I eat. I am restricted to ultra-safe foods right now but that doesn't help.
If I lie down on the floor on something soft it relaxes me and helps, but again doesn't get rid of it 100%. I lie and watch a movie or listen to music, and be mindful of my breathing.
I tried going for a gentle walk about 9-10pm but that made me feel worse even though it helped me pass a little bit of wind. I think because I was basically tired out that it was unhelpful.
I have had a couple of the "d" flares the last couple of days too first thing in the morning. So I think with me, it's all just a part of a flare up.
I happens sometimes, then doesn't happen again for a while, etc.