For diapers that work well, use the Northshore Megamax ones . They are really good quality, come in a few colors too, and really hold in a lot when you have a blowout. Also, use the diaper covers just in case. Keep a change bag in the car, with disposable pads, wet wipes etc. Just in case you can't make it to anywhere. I don't like having to change in the car, but some public restrooms don't have enough room in there, and may have to put your bag on the floor in there. I find it easier just to find a secluded parking spot; open the back door; and lay down on the seat with the pad and get it done. (Better if you have someone else with you to help, just takes a bit longer by yourself) I think people just need to have an awareness, many out there have this condition, and are too ashamed to discuss it. They need to be aware, yes, many adults have to use diapers and need to be changed out as well.