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"It's been 21 days since my husband told me he wants to file for separation. It's been very hard on my IBS and my heart. Got in my application for welfare so I can apply for disability. "

  1. I'm so, so sorry, I can only imagine how hard this must be for you. 🙁 Is your dad still staying with you so you're not alone? Sending big hugs, Karina (team member)

  2. I'm so sorry. I hope your application goes through quickly and you're able to get some help. Wishing you a gentle and symptom-free day ~ Sawyer (team member)

  3. Yes, thankfully my Dad is still staying with me. His personality is a lot like my husband's & mine so we have been getting along great. Thank you for the hugs.

  4. Thank you so much Sawyer, I really appreciate that.

  5. I'm glad to hear that you're not alone and that you're getting along so well. Hopefully things will get easier for you soon. Wishing you all the best, Karina (team member)

  6. I wanted to check in to see how you've been doing. Were you able to talk to your husband since everything? Karina (team member)

  7. We have had two good talks. He has also been hounding me to move out, which is stress I don't need on top of everything else going on.

  8. I'm sorry about that, this must be so stressful. Were you able to work something out during your talks? Hugs, Karina (team member)

  9. Yes this is super stressful. No, we weren't able to work something out. He's gone back on what he said

  10. So sorry to hear that. I just hope that the whole situation will get a little bit easier for you soon. Hugs, Karina (team member)

  11. Do you have any news on the application yet? I hope you've been doing okay. Karina (team member)

  12. No news on the application yet. Going to check out a place next week. I'm hanging in there but feeling quite irritable most days.

  13. Sorry to hear that. I hope the place you're seeing next week will work out for you. Sending positive thoughts, Karina (team member)

  14. There were 19 other people viewing the place that day, not sure if I will be getting it. My Dad said he will move in with me if I can find a 2bdrm instead, there have been a lot more ads for those lately.

  15. That is so unbelievably kind if him. Looking after his child, even to this day! What a stellar dad. I hope you setting in and get on your feet soon. Know that you're not alone in this and we're here for. You've got this 🙌 ~ Sawyer (team member)

  16. Thank you. Unfortunately, I still haven't found a place to call home & actually am staying in a shelter as a result. Hoping I get approved for subsidized housing but won't be able to move in until Nov 1

  17. I'm sorry to hear that you still haven't found a new home. Hopefully, you'll get approved and be able to move in November! Sending lots of positive thoughts, Karina (team member)

  18. Hi , how have you been doing lately? I really hope that you have finally found a new home? Hugs, Karina (team member)